When I fell pregnant with my first baby my best friend of ten years, actually rang and abused me for falling pregnant. As she had been trying and another friend had been trying and both had no luck. I was newly married at the time (which doesnt matter) but she told me I was showing everyone up by falling pregnant. She also said that my sister-in-law who had been trying unsuccessfully would now ignore any children I had, and would find it hard to come to family functions etc.
When i read this - my first thought - WTF? Seriously?????
How can anyone think that....by gosh - shame on you hey. I would of slapped her.

And CM - If your friends think those sorts of things, then they are not your friends, and you are better of finding out now then later. I know that, as we go thru these stages in our lives where old friends drop off, it does hurt, but, move forward, take comfort in your true friends.