Jay Jay,
My MIL still hasn't asked me how I am after losing our baby and I even saw her today. Its all just 'fluffy' talk with her, I think its because she doesn't know what to say to me. Maybe that is your SIL's issue too... she didn't want to be told bad news or make you sad so she pretended nothing was amiss. Just keep on smiling with the thought that your baby is thriving inside of you when you feel ignored and of course chat here.
take care, Curl
Yeah, suppose it is difficult for people to know what to say in threatened/actual miscarriage isn't it.
I remember trying to comfort my close friend after she m/c, and I was so nervous I found myself saying all sorts of things..........it seemed the more I tried to say the 'right' thing, so as not to upset her even more, I ended up saying all the 'wrong' things.
I'm glad to say that things are a lot calmer here now....it's just a tiny bit of old blood and a clot here and there - and some days there's nothing at all.
Have to admit, when I stopped bleeding completely mid-week, we made love, and after that the blood loss has returned.......only very slightly though...so hopefully all is well.
Sorry not been on here for a while, please don't laugh, but if belly belly don't send me an email with a direct link to thread I'm after, then I am at a loss as to how to find my way round the site!
You don't happen to have a quick route on how to get to certain threads when I log in, so I don't havve to go all the way round the site, and end up getting lost?!!
Jay jay, good to hear that things have calmed down for you huni. I hope they continue to stay that way.
BB is easy enough to find you way around. You just need practice hun. I find that when I first come on I just click on New Posts at the top. That way I can check out what has been going on. Or if there is a particular thread I am after and I know where it is, I click on the Forum Jump at the bottom and find the section I am after.
JayJay - I'm so glad things are sorting themselves out internally. I was frightened by renewed colour when DH and I resumed bd'ing after our 'scare' and at the dr's two weeks later I pushed the issue with her and I was told not to worry. Yeah right! Not worry, easier said than done. But as you know everything was okay with us and Charlotte is currently sleeping in her bed and I'm sure the same will be with you. I noticed that you're on one of the large family threads... what kind of car do you drive to fit all the kids in?
As for finding threads... I'm not laughing JayJay. Just experiment and see how you go, that's what I do. But, to get to threads that I've written in I click on my user profile at the top left of the screen, then click on subscribed threads and they're all there. I hope that helps you find what you're looking for.
Hi Curl,
So you had same experience when you and dh got up to mischief after the bleeding again...........I'm sure like us, you thought all would be ok, but its so scary to see blood again following day though isnt' it....aarrrgggghhhhh.
Anyway it seems to have settled down again now, hopefully anyway.
Yes i'm on large family thread as well, at the moment we get around by dh driving one land rover and me driving the other........but have looked at minibuses and am gonna get that in a few weeks times hopefully...or when we can find the money!
Thanks for the help in getting round the site and finding posts etc.
Take care xx
morning all.......phew, just got 3 eldest kids off to school...yipee! and another of our little uns will be going part time so she starts this afternoon...yes, yes, yes! Have to admit though, house is very quiet without them all at home.
Had a bit of a fright again this morning...more jelly like blood clots in bright red fresh blood, whatever that means....thing is though, dh and I 'got close' again last night and it was very painful for me so don't know if that explains the bleeding....it might not be coming from inside the womb etc after all?
Anyway just checked again, and its gone....just playing cat and mouse all the time!
Anyway, hope all is well with you lot, i managed to find my way around pretty easily today with your know-how to help me along - thanks.
Take care all xx
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