Our dogs are only allowed on their couch and definitely not allowed on our good couches but will try if they have the chance! And they get fed a few hours after us. And the female is desexed but not the male. I really think that it must be a dominating thing, maybe he is trying to have his scent every where so the female knows that he is more dominate. And probably also laziness - we went to bed the other night and I got up about 10mins later to get a drink and I saw fresh wee on the wall!!

I think that maybe he could be doing it to get back at us too. My girl gets a bit more attention than what he does. I have now started giving them equal attention but DP still gives the female a bit more attention because she is more playful. Do you think that could be a cause of it?

I also think that because he has been doing it for so long that it is going to be a very hard habit to break. I actually emailed Dr Harry last night hoping to get an answer. And I just received an email back saying that Dr Harry unfortunately doesnt give out advice anymore!! So I guess I will stop at vet to see what sort of advice they can offer me.

And hopefully some other people will give me some advise here too!