I wish I planned my own...My mum and xmil planned mine, a suprise babyshower. Was good, but xmil invited all her family whom i have nothing to do with, and some of my close friends didnt get an invite. I had my suspisions (sp?) but i had to pretend that I didnt know what was going on. Sorry if I sound really ungratefull!!! lol It would have been much better if just mum and I planned it, I could have had who I wanted there.

Plan your own, it will be awsome Good luck!