I'm going to plan my own... but I want it uni sexed and not a traditional one... thinking more along the lines of a BBQ (Boy B Q) where we can celebrate the pending arrival of our new little man.

Not sure on when we are going to have it yet and I'll have to get a move on so I can make all the invites and send them out. If I was back in NZ I know my girlfriends would have planned one for me but we have a very limited number of friends over here so thought uni sexed was the best option so it's enjoyable and not one of those events that you wish you never had :-)