NOT AT ALL!!! I have a close friend who for my entire pregnancy with DD said not to find out and was "disappointed" when we did... uhhhh its MY baby!

Then this pregnancy everytime i see her its "remember, say it with me... I WILL NOT FIND OUT THE SEX OF MY BABY.."

Her reasoning is that when the baby is born people wont care as much "oh you had the baby.." ... ummm this baby will be grand baby number 10 on my DPs side and we all still get very excited when a new baby is born. And if no one cares then they aren't really our friends are they and who thinks like that anyways??