Thanks for your advice. I told her today. I sat down and said to her that I had news and she guesses right away. She was really good about it. I told her that I know what she's going through and I understand that she's happy for us but miserable for herself.

We talked heaps and I said to her we were worried about telling her and she straight out said she was glad we told her in person and right away. She said when people call or text them it seems like they try and take the east way out so they don't have to deal with their pain.

I'm glad it's over and we have agreed to not post it all over FB and respect that it's hard for me hem and we won't be offended if they seem withdrawn and like they don't want anything to do with us.

They said they would be thrilled to be godparents too. I hope they get their BFP soon. It's hard not being able to be excited around then but I do know and respect why.