All my pregnancys have been unplanned to dh the first two to me as well although we wanted them just didnt think they would happen so soon , i did warn dh if he didnt want more he was in charge of contraception, by the fourth he was like this is the last one.......this pregnancy was a surprise for both of us, we were using condoms or pulling out and i didnt want anymore so soon, he told me to get an abortion and we could have another in like 5 years i considered it for about a week but couldnt do it