I haven't experienced an unplanned pregnancy either so cannot comment on personal experience but I am a youth worker so have had to support others in this situation (a little different I know as they're usually very young). I think it is good that they are now talking and I can understand her not wanting to tell parents etc but I think it is also important that she seek support from a counsellor or support network. Once a decision is made you cannot go back. she needs to be sure that her decision is definitely what she wants. It is too hard for you and her partner to be her only supports in this as you're both so close to the situation.

If you google unplanned pregnancy, women's health centers or community counsellors in your area you should get some numbers and names of people who can help support.

Big hugs to you all.


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