Thank you all for your replys. I need to get her to read about all your experiences.

She has had many ups and downs this week but she and DF are at least talking. I do believe her DF is scared, scared of his families reaction, scared of becoming a parent. My sister does not want to fight with him, she is concerned that even without this PG this relationship was going to be tough, due to the cultural differneces between families. I think she is considering termination, though the day before that she was saying she doesn't believe in termination. And that if her DF was happy about the PG, she would be the happiest girl in the world.

I'm sad at the thought I won't get to meet my neice or nephew. I'm sad that my sister has to go through this, she doesn't want our parents to know. Though I know they would be just as supportive as I am. I'm sad that her DF feels the way he does. Sometimes I think things happen for a reason, I hope her dating scan gives her the answer she is looking for.