HI I have to agree with you all.

I lost 15kg, gradually over about 2 years. Everyone else thought I was doing it for me, I guess in a way I was but i also wanted to do it to have kids.
I wasn't happy weighing 78kg and being 5ft 2. So far i have gained 1 kg per month and i feel good. I don't really care how much I gain, and i managed to loose it once i can do it again.

i expected coments about gaining weight again after loosing so much, but I didn't get any. Plus who really cares as long as bubs is ok,

saying that at the same time, I like to go out in public reasonably neat and clean, don't give a rats about makeup, but I would always have an outfit that matched. And I think after being stuck with only a bubs to talk to most of the time, I'd be relishing the chance to get all gussied up.