I went through all this with my first as well

I am also not a small person (14) and with my first I had comments from my boss, my mother in law and a wedding photographer. I cried all times.

I was so proud that I only put on 9kg over the whole time and then they had to be rude. My MIL's comment was "look at that bum you are definitely having a boy!" I was completely devestated (I had a girl :P) I was a bridesmaid when I was 7 months and the photographer said something like "don't worry I won't show your belly too much". In the group shot on the beach I was on the end and sort of half cut off.

This time they can all go and kiss my fat a***!!