Thanks ladies,

You make me feel so much better.

Just one more question (not sure if I should ask it here). For those who had a m/c did you have any symptoms prior to knowing the gp is not viable. I know I shouldn't be too worried but I want to prepare myself. I don't want to feel that because I have no spotting (compare to last time) what so ever it means that I will have a viable pg and then fall very heavy back to earth/reality.