Claire i ve heared it lots but it really isnt over till its over. With my son i had my first scan and the DR told me to go home and wait to MC, i had hemmorages (excuse the spelling) and a really low heartbeat. I went home devasted and cried the whole weekend. i had to go for another scan on the monday to check ectopic etc, and there he was alive and kicking, hes now 4 Y.O. they were amazed and to be honest so was i. keep the faith my love you just never know. i really hope this happens for you i know its you last embie.Most important dont blame yourself i'm sure you DH and DD arent blaming you, i know its hard when i got my results i apologised to my husband for letting him down, why do we do that??

Well i'm still waitng to MC which is driving me nuts, i just want it over, i dont know how long it normally takes after you HCG drop, should have asked i guess.
Well take care all and i'm thinking of you Claire and sending lots of +ive energy your way.