MARCELLUS,honestly hun were would we all be with out you and your wonderful advice .me personally just want to say thanks for trying to help me trust me im listening to everything you say ,so just then i made charlies bassinet uprite lol ive now got a big blanket under her little metress so shes asleep on a lean-sloap iykwim and dh bought back something called INFACOL and so far so good but im not going to get to excited she might hear me pmsl...and tomorrow when i get paid im off to buy a sling thanks hun