Hi all

Been busy lately so haven't had much time to drop in and post but have been reading how everyone is going.

BOC as for you question about your DH, with both my m/c my DH couldn't really understand either what it was like. To him the pregnancy didn't seem real until he could actually see something and even then it took him ages to really connect that a fat belly meant a baby. I think most men don't actually get the connection until they hold their child.

Anyway, looks like we might have brought forward our plans for no.2. I took Tara into DH's work yesterday and his boss mentioned that when I'm ready to look to go back to finding a job to let her know as they always have part time admin roles coming up (at the local hossy), so that bought on the conversation of do I get a job and then try for No 2 and possibly have to leave or do we bring forward our plans for No 2 and then possibly go back to work later.

Well we decided to bring forward trying for no 2 as I'm not getting any younger and it might work 1st time or the last time or not at all and then we will know where we stand on me going back to work sometime in the future.

So the plan is to make an appt with the FS for July and start the ball rolling for out FET's, by that time Tara will be 9 mths old so worst case scenario would mean that there would be an 18mth age gap. So how scary is that... in a couple of months I'll be back on the baby train.....