Neptune,
I wanted to pop in and give you a big squishy cyber hug, Im so sad your in Sydney, or I would be around helping you over the next few weeks, I am known for my exceptional organisational skills, so I could have you sitting on the bed, while I worked around you. In face if you need any help, I can always come up and see you sweets. There is a relationship section on BB, where you could post, and you will get responses from the wider BB community, where I am sure you will find lots of support, and some stratagies to get you through the next few months xx