OMG Danni, I did a double take on that, I thought u meant her bubba, I'll go find the post, that is sooo sad (well would be either way).

Awesome news Ellie, congrats, hope everything is ok with ur next scan, nah i say go for the time off, best to take it if u need it, who cares if others think u shld keep going, everyone's diff & they can't know unless they're in ur shoes, do what feels right to you.