grub- so sorry to hear of all the stress you are under at the moment and i can totally understand where you are coming from with the inlaws...and that is a strain you dont need with a newborn. I think too it can be so very hard getting our partners to truly understand how things affect us and how their actions, or lack of, can be so hurtful. I dont have a close relationship with my inlaws at all...I tried for a long time and then my MIL did some very hurtful things...I expected DH to defend me and speak up but he just told me to let it go, which I found hurtful. Anyway, I hope you can work through it all, because being awake in the night upset and angry is not good. DH and I have had a few heated arguments lately due to some external factors causing stress and he always manages to sleep, while i stay awake and upset! I hope things are a bit better today

oneday- awesome news!! very reassuring for you ...yay

kaybee- your inlaws sound very annoying and that kind of favouritism would be annoying. I have come to accept it with my MIL. My SIL has two kids, and i expect them to keep getting all the attention, which at this point is ok with me. hope you feel movement soon!

airline- how have you gone sorting your travel dilemma? I guess if you take precautions and check all requirements /rules etc thats the most you can do. It's good you and DH were able talk it all through

kelly- hope you are holding up ok

hi everyone else!

afm- all going well...loving being pregnant and heard the heartbeat again today. was just experiencing quite sharp pain on one side though...maybe just ligaments stretching?