maybe i'm mean - i have decided not to be ashamed or hide that DD is an AC bubba, so when someone asks, even someone i don't really know, i ask them when they are going to pay for our treatment! yes, it sounds silly to say it to someone you don't really know BUT, i figure if they're rude enough to be asking something like that, they deserve it between the eyes!

it's a ridiculous and pointless question - they don't know anything about you, so why not go on the defensive a bit? they are essentially asking about your SEX LIFE ffs!

or maybe i'm just so used to being on the defensive about it all that i HAVE to be like that so i don't get hurt any more kwim?