Not mean at all BG.
In the past people have made comments on one of one of the above and i just turned around and said it took too long to make DS so we are enjoying every second with him and not worring about other babies in the future...of which they generally have no reply :P
I am proud of the fact we did IVF and will tell DS when he is older if he asks why he hasn't got a brother or sister if that is the case.
Really we have amazing kids and we are lucky to have them in our lives but with all the bs comments maybe the best way is to get on the defensive?