So, as IVFers, we have to ask ourselves, why is that that once you fall pregnant, support and understanding seems to 'fall away' and suddenly you're expected to cope with this new and scary phase without anyone but the medical profession
So very true. When we had our over the phone clinic interview, we were told that we could access counselling over the phone since we lived quite a distance from the clinic, we could also access their library, plus the usual nurse you have. She told us any books we wanted to borrow or questions we had, we just had to ring her.
Such personalised 'service'. Then you find out you're pregnant, and all of a sudden you are alright to go and find the mythical person you've heard about but never seen, called an OB lol.

You go from having all this support available, to nothing