I was just reading about what to say to people who ask if this is your first baby. My 2 cents is you smile and say yes. Obviously it is up to the individual to respond with how they feel comfortable but I think of it this way: These people are not asking for your pregnancy history, they just want to know if you have other children at home.

I totally agree people need to be educated about miscarriage, and I am totally open and honest about mine, but I don't think the way to do it is to drop it on people asking an innocent question cuz it just makes them feel bad. That's just me though, to each his own