Just wondering if anyone else has totally gone off sex & being intimate with DH/DP?
We haven't been intimate since mid december, and even then it was a huge struggle for me. It's really statrting to cause alot of tension and problems between us.
I couldn't care less if we don't have sex or be intimate for another 6months.
Anyone else feeling the same? How do I deal with it?
Thanks,
I'm sorry it's causing so much tension I'll preface this by saying that I'm pretty opinionated about this

The problem isn't, imo, that you don't wish to be intimate... it's that your dh can't accept it. It's okay to go through phases of not wanting sex, whether it's the man or the woman who goes off it. And pregnancy, when your body is acting weird and you're tired and your hormones are all different, it's a perfectly natural thing to go off it. It's just a few months of frustration and there are other ways of expressing intimacy and physical closeness ... and he's presumably got two good hands

You can help your dh come to terms with it, perhaps by finding other ways of showing that you love him and find him attractive, and then using alternate methods of giving him some satisfaction. But he's a big boy, he's not going to die from lack of sex. If he can't come to terms with this, I strongly, strongly recommend some couples counselling. The issue of libido doesn't generally go away with the birth, babies have a way of getting in the way for quite some time.

No-one should ever be made to feel bad because they don't wish to have sex. And really, would he *really* want you to do it just to please him? Could he really enjoy it knowing that you didn't really want to and it was just about pleasing him? That'd be the question I'd ask him.