What about if your wife (me) isn't pregnant and the interest in sex thing has ben MIA for over 12 months? I'm just exhausted all the time, I'm up with DD 2 - 3 times a night and also have to entertain a full on and I mean FULL ON little boy during the day. I work 3 days a week and when the kids are in bed I just want peace and space! What can I do I don't want to lose my marriage - should I just simply fake it??? My DH has run out of patience and we are hardly even speaking now. I know the only reason he's still here is because he knows if he leaves I'll go home to NSW and he wouldn't want to be away from his children. Sorry to hijack this thread but there it's out now, I've been wanting to say "MY MARRIAGE IS PRETTY MUCH OVER" for a while, but it's just so scarey