Wow this thread is making me sad

I know exactly what everyone means about the lack of libido! I go to a mothers group twice a week and every mum there is in the same boat. Kinda scary really - because in the end it really does some damage to relationships.

I don't mean to give TMI, but i don't want sex. I'm not 'randy' ever. But my DH is. I try and satisify him (oh god this is embarrasing ) about once a week through a 'hand shandy', haha. It keeps him happy and it means i don't really have to do the deed.

A couple of mums and I have been wondering about the 'up the nose and away it goes' for women. Has anyone tried it??

i really want to know how it is, if it does actually make women horny??