Hi ladies,

I have to say that I have no interest in sex at the moment either. But fortunately for me Hubby is overseas and so it's not an issue.

Going off sex has been strange for me as I'm the more sexual one in our relationship . I love sex and I love making love to my hubby so it feels kinda weird for me that I don't want that. However, in saying that, going off sex has probably been a blessing for me bacause of hubby's absence.

When he comes back we'll see what happens. I know that at least the first day I'll want to make love to him and he'll want it too, but knowing his libido he'll probably be happy after the one time .

I guess this doesn't really help any of you who are struggling, but knowing that you aren't alone is always a reassurance.

Krisp - along with everyone else I would definately suggest counselling. Even if it's just for you at the moment. And if you can't get into a counsellor maybe you could contact a counselling hotline like Salvo Care Line or something. Just having someone to talk to may be the first big step.

Praying things work out for you