Gosh, I'd be tempted to tell them to, well, ahem-OFF! The gender comments drive me insane too and we aren't even finding out the sex, nor did we last time!!

We have a DD and TBH, both DH and I would actually love another girl but everyone is assuming already that we are desperate for a boy Some have asked if we'll be disappointed if it's another girl and don't seem to believe me when I say we'd actually love another girl. You can't win!

We can see benefits with both sexes and will be thrilled with either so that's what I tell people now unless they gob on about the boy thing then I tell them how much we'd actually love another daughter. Maybe you could try that? Tell them you were actually hoping for another boy so all your dreams have come true It may just shut a few people up.