DH and I decided we didnt wantt oknow last time until we got to the scan and we caved in, however Tori had her elgs crossed so we couldnt find out. This time I really wanted to find out but now I am startign to wonder if Iwould like another suprise. Decisions Decisions! I guess it comes down to you and DH nutting it out between you, maybe ask him why it is so important to find out and you can tell him why you want it to be a suprise and see if you can come to an agreement once you have each given you reasons for wanting/ not wanting to know.