LG that is such a good point you made, about perhaps being dissapointed now, but not once you are holding the bub. Maybe DH will understand if you tell him that.
I know i couldn't handle my dh knowing and me not, or the other way around.
One in all in i say!
We didn't find out, i wanted to, but only bc i am impatient. But if i knew i couldn't keep the secret, even shopping with a friend, i would look more at one sex clothes than the other.
As an adult, there arn't alot of surprises left, so we decided to leave this surprise as long as possible!

Renstar- an experienced sonographer is 100% accurate, a less experienced one can easily make a mistake. When i say 100%, if they can't see for one reason or another they can't see, rather than having an educated guess!
I have asked a few sonographers, and they all tell me the same! (I work in medical imaging if you're wondering why i know sonographers!!!)