UPDATE:
Well, I went to the new Doctor today and he was very very good, I told him I was getting close to reaching the weight limit with the other doctor and he said don't worry about him, and he doesn't have any problems with my weight, that said I stood on the scales and I was the same as 5 weeks ago, so I was happy, the baby was bigger though, because the fundal hight was more, So it's a go for this new hospital and new Doctor and I can worry a little bit less about weight things, I'll just keep eating how I'm eating now and cruise along with that, looks like the healthy eating is paying off as well.
Thankyou for all your support, you've help heaps, big tummy rubs all