well i had it both ways without a choice with DS he had his legs wide open so we could see the lot we were so happy coz we wanted a boy with DD we couldnt see coz she had the cord in between her legs and i was so annoyed that i couldnt find out i had a feeling she was a girl but i couldnt say it out loud but everyone else said girl but when she was born DH almost had a heart attack he thought she was a boy but the cord was still around her leg cheeky girl lol the reason i wanted to know is coz i like to be organised