oh hun you're in the same place I was just a few days ago. Think if I read one more study/advice on VBAC's think I will literally explode. Talking to my DP has really helped remind me that birth is just a few hours of our little ones life, there is so much more to prepare for.

Focusing on the practical side of having a new born in the house again has helped me. Preparing meals that can be frozen, stocking up on things like laundry powder, longlife milk, toilet paper, meal basics, pads. You can read all about the sleep depravation but seriously until you got through you cant really comprehend just how tired you and your DH will be. So having sites/pages/phone numbers bookmarked for advice on sleep/feeding issues is great. Use this time to research things like different formulas/bottles (even if you plan on breastfeeding, just in case) settling methods, burping techniques, anything and everything about having a 0 -12 mth old.

all the best with the birth and life with your new one.