Buy some of Proctosedyl suppositories for treating haemorrhoids from the chemist (make sure you keep them in the fridge). I had to use them when I was pregnant with DD as I too got haemorrhoids. So embarrassing!!! And I REALLY had to use them after giving birth.... and they got HUGE!!! Eww. Just a tip... mine were hurting so much during labour (due to all the pushing obviously), the midwife gave me a local so they stopped hurting and I could push pain free... so to speak. LOL - Might be worth keeping in the back of your mind, just in case. I feel your pain!!!