I agree with Monnie too!

I think you need to inform yourself as much as possible about the affects of epidural and other forms of pain relief. It's really important to make an informed and empowered decision. You may read about the pros and cons and decide to go with it. But, I urge you to read read read and that way you will feeel really comfortable with your decision.

Pain relief in labour is something that's really important to think about. I had an epidural with my first child and I had a really bad experience. I had transferred from home to hospital and my baby was posterior. I made the choice to have an epidural. It's important to rmember that often epidural will limit yur mobility.

With my others I had birth centre births and I used water immersion, massage, labour support, showers, squatting, hanging (holding on above my head and dangling (off the door!) it was fabulous!

The unmedicated labours were far better for me than the epidural labour. (my epidural didn't "take" and I ended up with a dural tap - when cerebro spinal fluid escapes causing a massive and debilitating headache.) Whilst this is a rare side affect it does happen and it is hideous!

ONe of the best ways of minimising the need for medicated pain relief is having good birth support. Having a midwife you have got to know and trust with you, a woman friend who has birth beliefs congruent with your own, a doula.

Wishing you a wonderful birth!