bjrose, lets jsut say that I'm can be a very stubborn lady well, I call it tenacious, dh calls it stubborn and he says some ppl would call it pigheaded lol So certainly wouldn't suprise me if little mr was too. I know Noah is stubborn not in a brat way, in a determined good way iykwim I've decided to talk the positive approach and say he is patient lol a friend yesterday suggested he might be lazy lol I said hmm hadn't thought of that one but u could be very right!! She meant it more like laid back then lazy, DH and Noah r both just real laid back and cruisey which although sometimes that annoys me cause I can be task-orientated its actually the perfect match cause DH knows exactly how to calm me down etc when needed