I am often over care professionals getting labeled as evil. People seem to forget that midwifery and obstetrics are actually 2 seperate areas. Obstetrics are taught the bad stuff, they have the 'unnatural' drilled into them because it is their job to fix it. IF something goes wrong they are the ones expected to fix and save the day. so thats what they know. very little of their education is on 'normal' and what happens if things actually go right. Unfortuantly the line between midwifery and obstetrics is blurred, which is why they are involved when they might not need to be.

but yes I agree with you, they aren't all terrible. I'm glad you guys are on the same page about what you need and want =)