Totally Lulu! That's what I mean! He knows how you feel, so many caregivers (not just OB's) aren't in tune with their patients wishes and needs. He knows how you feel, so he acts accordingly. Like I said, everyone is different, and wants different things. I assume if you said you wanted to go back home, are happy to wait, not in much pain distress etc etc he'd back that too. Sorry of I came across the wrong way, I was agreeing with you