thankyou thats exsactly what i want i was hopeing i would go into spontaniuos labour at home and would be able to have him either at hame or get to the hospital at the last second so they couldnt interfer to much now i have to do some more reading to see if its safe and if ill have the nerve to try and do it on my own ,my concern is that i keep being told that they wont let me have a vaginal birth and im not sure how they can stop me if i refuse to have a c/s as i know i could deliver him breach i honestly believe that my body is more then capable just not sure how they plan on stopping me i was told they would try to get my hubby to sighn for the c/s not sure how that works because as far as im concernd unless they are cutting him open to get bub out it sould be my choice no one elses so yeah i am confused but i have my prenatal visit tomorrow so i guess they may answer some more of my questions then if not i may just take your advise and not go to anymore as the are stressing me out big time .