I am not sure what you mean Gracie... I know that sometimes when folk have differing opinions this can feel confronting. This is what Imeant by stepping on toes...

If this is how you truly feel then perhaps you need to investigate another person to be a support for you. If you don't feel he can give you what you need at this important time perhaps you have a close friend that is supportive of your birthing views? Or you could hire a doula...

There are ways around the problem. I hope you can find a solution that fits for you...