A school's culture is probably the second most influential aspect of a child's life after home life. I think it's appropriate to send you child to a place that reflects that of your home life and family values. I value self respect, respect for others and respect for property at home and I feel that I need to pay to have this replicated at my DD's school. I don't really care so much about the academic side of things. I believe that the brightest person will fail if they don't have these forms of respect (for self/others/ property). My DD's school is VERY big on fostering compassion within their students. The students have a very high profile and (compulsory) participation in the local community... my DD regularly goes to the local retirement villages as part of the school's community service program. Becoming an engaged member of community doesn't just happen... it has to be guided. I'm not saying all private/independent schools manage this better than public schools... just that I have found one that does. The school also has very high statistics for girls continuing on to Melbourne Uni... about 3/4 each year... but that doesn't really bother me... I just want my DD to become a caring and engaged member of society... she can grow up to be the local garbage collector as far as I'm concerned... but I just want her to share my values.... as any parent would.... and these are the values promoted at her school.