That would've totally saved my relationship with that friend. But unfortunately she didn't understand, and I had to end our friendship. Crappy situation, I know..
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That would've totally saved my relationship with that friend. But unfortunately she didn't understand, and I had to end our friendship. Crappy situation, I know..
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argh that sucks! but like everyone has been saying this is her insecurity and NOT a reflection on you on who you are. Also it's funny because friendships can go through challenging times when a situation changes. i know that i have experienced ups and downs based on things like relationships, jobs, babies etc. but is always a good chance for reflection and solidifying of rock-solid relationships and in some cases a good chance to 'clear out the stables' so to speak.
hopefully this reaction by your friend was just a storm in a teacup and once she gets used to the idea of seeing you as a different person (ie without husband) she'll settle right back in and you guys can get back on track.
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sweetbabymumma, I have been the jealous girlfriend too hun. XH bestie was a woman and she was always trying to turn him against me and be awful to me and make me look like i was making a mountain out of a mole hill. I ended up getting her to confess that she in fact loved XH and wanted to marry him and have his babies. Their friendship ended there and then, without me interfering. It is awful when that happens so i feel for you.
cassius, she is no friend of mine, she is my bestie's SIL thats all, my bestie had her birthday at her brothers house so the SIL was there. I would never choose to be friends with such an insecure drama queen.
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