I agree to some councelling hun, if he is willing. If it is something that you both want to fight for. I'm not quite sure I understand what you mean though Ryn? Do you mean you don't love your husband and son or aren't 'in love' with them? if that makes sense? Im sorry if that is an incensitive question, please don't take it as that. I've had very little sleep and just wanted to understand what you meant, I really liked your post but just wanted to 100% understand it. Regardless though, I don't understand the 'falling out' of love with someone. Especially the mother of your child. LIke ... how people just wake up one day and decide they're not in love? I hope you can work it out for the sake of you and your daughter hun. And like already posted, sorry that this is what brought you to bb.