hey hun

for our xmas day I have the kids xmas eve and xmas day lunch and xdh takes them at 2:30pm til 3pm boxing day.

It works for us becuase my family does a huge traditonal xmas lunch where as his des nothing so i am not making my girls miss out to do nothing. and luckily our nmediator agreed.

I wouldnt be bending over backwards for him, ask him what his intentions are for xmas day and go from there... but dont compromise too much, its your day too