Jess- Im so sorry this happened to you and your DD. EF seriously needs a whack up the side of the head. I hope the councilling is helping you, and just be gentle with yourself hun, you've been through so much. Don't stress about DD, she will cope hun, and she will not be damaged from this. You have to concerntrate on yourself for a little while
Anyway, i just wanted to say how sorry i was It's just so horrible. xoxoxoxoxoxo