Hon, Tashybabe hit the nail on the head, and I'm glad you're getting some counselling to help you through. Definitely work on you getting yourself right - for your own self and for your beautiful girl. Don't rush headlong into another relationship, no matter how lonely you feel - take time to get to know yourself again, to be the strong amazing wonderful woman we know you are.

Later, when you're ready, you will be able to go into another partnership with your eyes wide open and the knowledge that you are strong, you are wise and that you are worthy of true, generous love.

And being ok is a journey. All journeys start by taking that very first step, sure you will fall down some, scrape your knees but always, always get back up and keep on taking that next step.