thanks blusky!

Diannescruffy- i know i am better off without him! im just going to do this for me i need to concerntrate on DS and my pregnancy, in the end i guess its only his loss, he will of lost more than i will have! right?

1sttimemumma- exactly what i said to him when he said this to me!! what the hell does he want me to do chuck oscar in my baby bjorn and hit up the clubs i guess ill never understand the way he is thinking but hopefully when he gets his chain of thoughts back he will realise and ill be to far gone to look back!

BellyBelly- Your right! me and DS do fine on our own on the weekend! its not like him not being home is a shock!

Alibaby- thanks for cuddles! truely appreciated atm!