i think rouge said it beautifully

no matter what your circumstances, those first months are crazy. i hope you end up with a super MG - i know alot of people seem to have crappy experiences but mine was a good one & they have been the best support - and still are.

and there is nothing wrong with wanting to go out & enjoy yourself. you still deserve (and i would argue, need) time out & time to enjoy yourself & remind yourself how special you are. i think it's important not to lose your own identity once you become a mum - it should be an added layer not the whole shebang.

i know you probably won't - but if you ever feel like a coffee (or a vodka ) just let me know - i'm in your area every monday