Hi there i have two son's aged 2 and 4 i breast fed till they were 14months i weaned the first because i fell with the second and weaned the second to get him out of my bed lol he liked his boobies on demand night and day. I got fed up with him latching on by himself through the night. I am now 28 weeks with the third and another boy!! The father is threatning that he has full coustody from birth and i can travel the 4 hours north for the 1 -3 hours visitation. lol What a load off bull s***t in his dreams. He calls me his incubator. That's all he wanted from me was a child. My ex husband the father of my other two is gay i found out with him cheating on me with another man. I was so devo. So yes no trust left for men at all!!!! It also get's me mad when i did go to the pub to play pool with my family i got comments like "at least we now she puts out boys" My dad ended up in a brawl with us all having to leave. So now i stay at home unless i have to go to antenatal check up's or to do things with my boy's like the park where i do meet other mums and single mums which is great.