oh and as for those w@nkers in the pub, go shove the pool cue up their a$$! or if thats not possible then just walk up to one of them, smile and punch him in the nose! that always gets my point across
oh oh oh and another thing, WRITE EVERYTHING DOWN! when it comes to court, and you have recorded everything he's said and threatened and done, and he has just 'his word', guess who's gonna look like a fool!
i'd give you my lawyer's number, she's the top female divorce lawyer in queensland and hates men... good combination hey... but she lives on the sunshine coast... bit far from you i think!
seriously tho, write down all these stupid things he's saying, because in the long run, the more he threatens you, the more unstable he will appear to a judge... trust me
and you must keep me posted on your journey from now on!
us women gotta stick together...
it'll turn out ok, you watch, karma will come back and bite him on the a$$ big time

take care